settling in...

[cheri]

All moved into the condo with Alexa.

A little strange, but peaceful.

A little sad, but a necessary choice.

 

It is impossible to live with an abusive addict while trying to make yourself better in more ways than just not smoking.

 

I oddly feel empowered, stronger.

Hell, I should after all this crap over the past year.

 

I hope this is the right decision. I hope this next 6mos leads to positives.

I hope I can let go of all the yucky stuff quickly.

If it goes badly, I hope I recover fast. 

Aint no time for sadness.

 

 

Ps..lol..I am not on lsd, Im just weird.  :D I take full advantage of being able to have a lot of fun whenever I can, and am not afraid to share the crazy. I have never done drugs in my life.

 

 

[Nicole Diver]

Absolutely. Life is too short to live with an abusive person.

[ChRiSpY]

Ha... I was being sarcastic about the LSD.  I like your posts...they are refreshing.

 

We are all our own kind of crazy.

 

I hope you feel as liberated as you sound.

 

Life is good...enjoy it.

[Still winning]

Do you know what, life is there to be lived, not tolerated or dodged.

 

Go be the best you and Alexa you can be, you derserve that. 

 

x

[cheri]

All is going well so far..it is definitely a little weird.

Man wanted me to come over to talk today.

I said no. I know where that will lead. Straight to an argument with no ending. Blame. Anger.

So only phone calls or texts until he is in some sort of treatment. Even outpatient would be okay with me. AA or something.

Him seeing Alexa is okay, as long as it is in a public place, and I'm there.

 

He isn't liking this much. I don't like it much either. Alex is just like whateverrrrr...can I go to my friends house for dinner?

 

:D I love her.

[Still winning]

All is going well so far..it is definitely a little weird.

Man wanted me to come over to talk today.

I said no. I know where that will lead. Straight to an argument with no ending. Blame. Anger.

So only phone calls or texts until he is in some sort of treatment. Even outpatient would be okay with me. AA or something.

Him seeing Alexa is okay, as long as it is in a public place, and I'm there.

 

He isn't liking this much. I don't like it much either. Alex is just like whateverrrrr...can I go to my friends house for dinner?

 

:D I love her.

Kids :)  They are the easy part!

[Ramona]

Kudos for separating yourself from a toxic situation - HARDER than it seems it would be.  Very courageous and inspiring to others facing similar situations.  Change can be glorious - you may finally be able to differentiate between "what's yours" and "what's his."  You may really like yours!!!  Keep on truckin!