Is it rude

[bakon]

to speak the truth or do we have to be nicer and not upset the brain dead....

 

not the psychopath who will stalk or hurt you if you saw something

 

not the group of juvenile vandals standing on the corner

 

not Colleen or DD or ....

 

I mean people who for lack of a better way, should know better. Lets say they do something and it doesn't turn out good. Anyone else would know that was going to be the results because the way they did the action was in no way correct or complete. And now they are suprized at the outcome...do I have to say "Man that sucks, I thought it would work too." Or can I say "Really, you are not convinced the method was wrong and the result was never going to happen." Or just say "Stupid is what stupid does." Urban dictionary says even smart people doing stupid things are stupid. Why cant that be said without being called rude?

 A referee can say strike or your out. Why cant we call it like we see it?????

 

I know we all got to be nice to each other, but is it nice to lie and say what we don't mean? or should we be nice by saying the truth so we can help these window lickers???

 

I don't mean to call a fat girl fat, they are curvy and I love the curves. Don't tell the wife something bad, she know when you sleep. Don't tell your boss or teacher, these figures don't need you approval, don't waste your time there....cat people are waste of breath too....

 

But should a stranger or friend need to actually complete an action correctly, lets say on a regular basis, and want to actually be good at it, but they just aren't getting it on their own...is it ok to point out .........

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

or pm them  and say the sticks will always win more, no matter what

[Colleen]

Bakon :huh: ...You are all over the place, but that was the point wasn't it? 

[Devil Doll]

I try be as honest as possible while trying not to be mean.. ;) Unless I am pissed or am not your biggest fan, then I will either A. Tear you to shreds or B.Ignore the hell out of you because you don't even deserve for me to acknowledge your existence. 

 

That being said I do hold my tongue a lot because it isn't worth trying to explain my point of view or upsetting people. There was a thread recently where I refrained from my opinion because it just wasn't worth it. 

[beacon]

What?

[Devil Doll]

I said not you two

I don't listen to breakfast food lol ;) 

[JackiMac]

DD and Colleen you are both excluded from this thread, lol, me if someone had something to say I would rather it was said, as long as it wasnt in a mean or hurtful way, sometimes I get very angry and just vent and then regret it, sometimes I regret it, and sometimes it isnt worth putting your opinion forward because no-one listens anyway 

[Frezflops]

well, with the traumas I see coming into the hospital I just shake my head at the stupidity or the lack of common sense.

As far as speaking the truth it depends on the audience, with certain members of my family I am honest and occasionally brutaly honest depending on the seriousness of the subject. Others eh not worth the drama it could cause. 

[Colleen]

It is rude to exclude DD and I.

[Nancy]

In some cases, the only possible response is  "WTF were you thinking?"  imho...

[Devil Doll]

ROFLMAO you really need to keep out of the evidence room! You're as mad as a hatter.

 

ETA- my hair is green. ;) No carpet in Brazil.

[BAT]

Oh look !!!! A bunny !!!!  :)

[Colleen]

This is why presumed innocent until proven guilty came into use.  They were afraid that some officers with overactive imaginations would make stuff up.  <---Bakon

[Tink]

Fight fight fight

[Colleen]

And you can't use duct tape to fix and exhaust ginger. And the cheering one does after the other.

Liquid silicone, not duct tape...big difference.  

[BAT]

[Gemzee]

I'm confused

[Still winning]

I think it's ok to say something if they bring it to your door. On the whole I'd rather walk away nowadays, who needs the grief. However, I personally have this expression of disbelief in the presence of stupid people, basically I'd be a bad poker player lol.

[JackiMac]

honestly just pee'd myself laughing!!! hate this getting older  :laugh2:

[El Bandito]

Telling stooopid people that they are stooopid rarely helps I find.

 

Marvel at the diversity of stupidity and move along...