Hi Ariel,
It may sound like people are not being supportive, but the opposite is true. yes, we have all quit - some cold turkey, some using patches or other nicotine replacement, some with Chantix.
We are all addicts and being rid of smoking is incredibly freeing, and you will feel so much better, stronger and confident.
Do some reading on this site, keep posting. We would love to help you become a non-smoker.
It took me a couple of "tries" to quit for good using various methods, patches, ecigs, will power, gum, etc, etc. I would go a couple of days or a couple of weeks and be back smoking. Finally, I chose not to smoke. I quit cold turkey and even through very tough cravings, I kept choosing NOT to smoke instead of smoking.
I remember one day in particular - about 10 days into my quit on my way home from work. Oh, I wanted to smoke so badly. I drove by every store and kept telling myself , go to the next one, go to the next... I pulled over into my neighborhood, about to make a u-turn and head to the nearest store to buy smokes. Instead, I logged in and read and posted. It got me through, and I remained smoke free. I'm sharing this to let you know it can be a struggle at times for all of us, but we need to make that decision to not smoke and stick with it no matter what.