In the grand scheme of things, I owe my quit to my girls...lets face it...anything that affected me negatively, also affected them..and the last thing any of us would want to do is hurt the ones we love...
This,I believe,we all have in common...we do it for ourselves, but with others in mind, as beneficiaries.
But ..aside from that, who was instrumental in helping you "understand" what it took to quit. I suppose I mean from one of these support boards..
I dont know how many of you received much support from friends and family early in your quit, but in reality, I didn't...non smokers have NO IDEA whats involved with ending this addiction, and if it wasnt for some great people of this(and other) boards I am not sure I would be getting ready to celebrate 11 months free.
There is always someone who sticks out from the crowd who ,for one reason or another, stuck out as someone who made it "click" for you.
For me , it was Jenn and Debbie...I dont know...they were almost like a "team" for me...they were so positive in what they said, it wasn't like they tried to make ME believe something..I could tell THEY believed it!They were (are) strong.. (and I thank them :wub: )
Dont get me wrong...there is a multitude of others that play a part in my quit...from some of the more recent "quitters"...to most (if not all) the long term "quitters".. Everyone here plays a part, and has advise we can all benefit from...but..
For the NEWBIES out here listening to me ramble...I just want to say "listen close"...we all have something to offer, but it may just be that one bit of information or advice from someone who makes it "click" for you...