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5. Use on your faucets to filter out mineral depositsHappy anniversary @Colleen!😊 NOPE!Can you believe it just doesn't fit the profile to wear boxers and work at a restaurant for many years?😂That you used to work in a restaurant for years?I didn't see you as a boxer type of guy, more a boxer/brief type maybe?Melanie Griffith and Matthew Moldine alsoDidn't he say boxers earlier?Don't you think the type of underwear a guy wears says a lot about him?Just a refresher for everyone 😊 As Babs so eloquently put it: I am asking you....begging you all...to PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE...make an effort to overlook things and if you feel you can't...put that person on ignore. Also, if someone you just don't like posts something...unless you have something positive to contribute...please refrain from saying anything. If someone does post something offensive--please report it. Leave the moderating to the moderators. You can always also Private message me or one of the other mods if you want to discuss matters. We will do our best to help. MQ and the moderators here have always enjoyed a forum where people feel welcome and secure, to be able to post their feelings without judgement or criticism..and we have done that without heavy moderation. Let's please keep it that way...we are all adults here. For the past 4 years we have helped countless people fight the real enemy...that nasty smoking addiction. That's why we are here. Let's not lose focus on what is most important. It would be horrible, horrible, HORRIBLE, to lose members who need support or want to give support, just because you don't like them. I know NONE of you really want that. You are all better than that. Lastly...a reminder of the forum guidelines: Our guidelines are simple. If your post content, signatures, profile images, etc. are disruptive and impact our members' enjoyment of our community we may ask you to refrain from such actions or revoke your access to this community. We're here to help and support one another and have some fun along the way. This is your community. Make it count for something.--MQDo you know you can tell a lot about a guy by the type of underwear he wears?This topic is now locked and has been moved to Off The Record.Aww just brush it off @Linda, with all these different personalities its normal to have all these different opinions on the Topic. Heaven knows I had my share of controversial replies when I post about my JAC or that I didn't quit drinking my beer when I first quit. More so on my previous forum than here but It didn't change my mind because I knew what worked for me. And if it worked for me it was worth sharing it imo. You also have to remember that some members believe in tough love and won't sugarcoat anything and that's ok too. And if someone doesn't want to see posts from a particular member you can always put them on your ignored users list...Is this true @Mac#23?How do you know mac's underwear is grey?Am I the only one who doesn't hand wash any of my clothes?Threads like this always cause some tension because of the simple fact that one size doesn't fit all. What works for one may not work for another. And while a debate can be a good thing there's also a time when you just have to agree to disagree..............@Katgirl, a lot of us felt the same way early in our quits. I totally thought I enjoyed smoking and got mad that other people "got" to smoke while I had to quit because of SOB. I even wrote a post about it at the other forum I was on. It wasn't until I was told by my fellow quitters that those people don't GET to smoke, they HAVE to smoke. That was my AHA moment I think. As you progress in your quit I think you will start seeing more joys in being quit then you ever did as a smoker. Especially with the trips you have planned. Imagine no more chain smoking before you get on the plane. Or having to go through security several times because you had to go outside to smoke! Or jonesing for one as soon as you land! There's so many more perks other than the obvious health benefits. Wait until your kids hug you and you don't reek of smoke!I know just how you are feeling @Robbie, California had the longest lockdown of any state in the U.S.! But I truly believe that that is what kept me, as high risk, safe until I was able to get vaccinated. We discovered zoom meetings during lockdown and had fun video talking to each other. Maybe you can look into doing something like that?Its with Michael Keaton as a tenant from hell. Its old 1990 but good imo.
