Jump to content

jillar

Moderators
  • Posts

    25688
  • Joined

  • Days Won

    211

Everything posted by jillar

  1. Hi @TONY, glad you're settling in. I'm going to move this thread to our Social forum. Sorry about the loss of your wife. I don't put any decorations out anymore but I do still buy gifts for a couple friends and family.
  2. jillar

    Shall We Rhyme?

    Hated that movie Love your profile pic @Jordan7
  3. Welcome aboard @TONY, or is it Pat? Congratulations on two weeks quit already, that's awesome! These first few weeks/months can be pretty tough, but they are totally doable as we can all attst too and once you get past them you'll never have to do them again I also suggest checking out our pinned threads on the main board. Lots of good tips and clues to help you. We also have some pretty enjoyable social boards for when you want to get your mind off smoking but still stick close to your support. Reach out to us whenever you need to and definitely if you feel yourself caving to a crave so that we can talk you past it ok?
  4. 7. Aluminum foil
  5. Congratulations on 7 years quit @Runfree, I hope you stop by and let us know how you're doing. Merry Christmas
  6. Congratulations @Kris on a half a year quit! I hope you're first smoke free Christmas is awesome! I can totally see the positive change in you since you first quit and its wonderful
  7. Boo Quit Date: March 9, 2016 Posted December 8, 2019 One of the greatest gifts the process of quitting gave me was the opportunity to practice detachment on a daily basis. I started thinking about this earlier today after hearing Jocko Willink talk about detachment on a podcast. In fact, the moment I figured out how to separate myself from whatever emotions and thoughts I was having in the moment was the turning point in my quit. It was a struggle before I figured it out. After I figured it out, it has been nothing but smooth sailing. The cravings didn't magically go away when I turned the corner. The odd thought about "the good ol' days when I was a smoker" still popped up from time-to-time. The basic tenets of addiction were still there, I just changed how I reacted. Instead of surrendering to the chaos and allowing the emotional upheaval to dictate my actions, I just took a step back and observed what was really going on. Identified my thoughts as nothing more than a temporary feeling born of decades of addiction. Detaching yourself from the self-defeating thoughts and emotions of addiction allows you to observe what's really going on and make wise decisions. The cigarette is an inanimate object. You are not a smoker. You are someone who used to smoke. Your thoughts have as much or as little power as you give them. Link to original post: https://www.quittrain.com/topic/13326-the-power-of-detachment/
  8. jillar

    Shall We Rhyme?

    Fudge is gooey
  9. Can't have everything
  10. 5. Bread box
  11. 3. Muffin tins
  12. Cookbooks I had to Google bakers rack lol
  13. jillar

    Today

    Well hello Mrs @beazel, its good to see you! Merry Christmas
  14. 4. For Doreen to get to see her NIcky next year, it's been way too long!
  15. jillar

    Today

    They're these and they're yummy! Especially good for a hangover too
  16. jillar

    Today

    I'm doing nothing and fixin to have me some Kippered snacks and crackers and maybe a beer and a sappy Christmas movie too lol
  17. 1. Braces, asked for them every year lol
  18. Need colonic enima?
  19. @KEL, glad we could help lol. You're doing great!
  20. No talking allowed
  21. jillar

    Shall We Rhyme?

    Should be easy
  22. 6. Bobs Big Boy piggy bank
  23. 4. Dillars ashes
  24. Everyone wrecks their first car Kel
  25. Both me and my sister had Pintos lol. I've had around 20 cars. I would buy one, fix it up some and sell it for a profit when something else came around.

About us

QuitTrain®, a quit smoking support community, was created by former smokers who have a deep desire to help people quit smoking and to help keep those quits intact.  This place should be a safe haven to escape the daily grind and focus on protecting our quits.  We don't believe that there is a "one size fits all" approach when it comes to quitting smoking.  Each of us has our own unique set of circumstances which contributes to how we go about quitting and more importantly, how we keep our quits.

 

Our Message Board Guidelines

Get in touch

Follow us

×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Guidelines

Please Sign In or Sign Up