We are addicts...some of us still do what addicts do....
I have said I see quitting as the Hokey kokey..you have to put your whole self in...
Those that join ,never post ,just dissapear.... Have one foot in and one foot out...they want to quit....but are not a hundred per cent committed.,
They havn,t the knowledge..the skills...
I do get upset when one of our soldiers lose thier battle ,after a they have a good quit going...I think this is due to still believing they missing out on something..a friend !!!
Again this is due to lack of knowledge....
Those that post a SOS ,deep down want to be rescued...and most do keep thier precious quit...
It's true ,we can only give the tools...they have to still do the work...getting across that the discomfort is short lived ,is the hardest part..