Ah the eternal quit, I remember it well. I did a stint from July through to March before I got it, ya know all those practices made the real deal a done deal.
If it helps the way I did it is this:
-Snot/Nope - I could remember these, no fancy sayings, just one of these two when a thought arose.
-I read up on whyquit.com on the journals/stories of people who had died. One a day until they were all read. Every time I imagined it was me and I had to tell my loved ones I had xyz illness and it was caused by me smoking. I cried a lot but became too scared to smoke - finally the health bit kicked in doing this.
-I posted, sometimes tripe. I responded so much that sometimes the whole board had my name written next to it, normally in the mornings :)
They are my tops tips. Gum is fine, cigarettes are not fine. So if it's working like that then all good really. Not for everyone but you do what feels right.
Fake it till you make it - solid quitting advice. Hate cigarettes with a passion. They are taking your money, stealing your very breath, how bloody dare they, you will not give them the time of day!! Yeah that can defo work!
Remember every tough time is a battle faced and the more battles you win - the closer the victory is! On a really bad trigger or crave, face it down, stare it in the proverbial eye and dare it to think it can have you. Every bad day/crave/trigger/moment is a big leap forward in your quitting journey.
Welcome back Rowly. x