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Reciprocity

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  1. Seems this guy was just a nut-bar. No indication of any Political Terror stuff going on for this one. I can't believe the cop took this guy down without a shot even fired after the guy put his hand in his pocket and told the cop he had a gun. Cop said "I don't care!" and kept his gun trained on him telling him to get on the ground. Guy pulled out a cell phone and made like he was aiming it at the cop. Cop still didn't shoot him - wow! Can't say I would have had that kind of restraint. The accused was in court this morning for official charges. Haven't heard what they are yet but suspect multiple 1st degree murder charges. I just hope they don't let him off on an NCR basis (Not Criminally Responsible due to mental defect). I can't see how they would on this one but, it does happen often here in Canada. They're pretty soft on crime when it comes to the courts here. All the EMS, Cops, fire people and even random people at the scene did an amazing job calmly trying to give aid to those injured and dying on the street. Big props to all those who were there giving assistance So sad because it was just so random. Wrong place, wrong time and you were just mowed down
  2. Reciprocity replied to Boo's topic in Socializing
    I just realized this morning that the Toronto Maple Leafs played a do or die game 6 against Boston last night and actually won. I didn't even watch it They will be playing in a winner take all Game 7 tomorrow I think, in Boston. My daughter texted me and told me I can't start watching them now because if I do, I'll jinx them - LOL. I wouldn't be putting any money on them in any case. Surprised they made it this far after being down 3 games to 1 in a best of 7 series
  3. Yes it is simple and fragile all at the same time but it's your addiction that makes those thoughts of "just one" so appealing and convincing. Education about the addiction can help you anticipate these issues and then you are better prepared to deal with them. That's where the simple part comes in .... just N.O.P.E. every day
  4. I'm getting confused with all the support groups but .... isn't that a good thing? The more support we have the better! I don;t care what the group name is only that everyone is supporting our common goal - stopping our participation in this deadly addiction! Welcome aboard the Quit Train Rusty! Stay active here - it will help you more than you may think
  5. Reciprocity replied to bakon's topic in Games
    15
  6. Reciprocity replied to bakon's topic in Games
    12
  7. Reciprocity replied to bakon's topic in Games
    Ten!!
  8. Reciprocity replied to bakon's topic in Games
    Seven
  9. Just wanted to give my condolences to the victims and family members of victims of the attack that was launched on the Southern Ontario community of Toronto today. Knew it would happen here in Canada at some point I say .... lynch the pri*k! I'd be pleased to pull the lever or switch that ends that fukcer's misguided life! They've got him in custody but he will be out on bail if he doesn't have multiple criminal convictions on his record. Deporting the suspect that is in custody will not happen until he is convicted of mass murder and that will be years down the road. And, even then, he will have years of appeals to launch before he's sent back to where he came from - Rot in hell you fukcin bastard!!!
  10. Reciprocity replied to joe's topic in Socializing
    Enjoy your time off Joe! I know I really enjoyed a little R & R recently. It's a really good break and helps you to reset your focus on return to the real world
  11. Crossing the street to pledge my daily NOPE! Oh, and I feel special because I have a tan and there's still snow on the ground
  12. Reciprocity replied to Boo's topic in Socializing
    He was a great guy to have on "your team"!! He's all in no matter where he plays I think. I'm not sure if he has anything left or not but if he does, fasten your seat belt because he will entertain you no doubt
  13. Hey JB! I was just on holiday and I was watching people in smoking areas where ever I went and was glad I wasn't one of them and proud that I no longer HAD to huddle around some ashtray that was placed in that undesirable spot to catch the ash from those deadly cancer sticks but then, one day I was walking along somewhere and out of the blue, there was a crushed out cigarette on the ground, maybe only 1/4 smoked. I focused on the crushed cigarette and I momentarily wished I had a lighter so I could pick up that crushed cig. and light it up right then and there. All this was in one instantaneous thought that maybe lasted 5 seconds; if that? My point here is that those random thoughts keep happening long after we've quit. They just don't last as long and become easier and easier to dismiss the longer we stay quit. Just don't get cocky and act on them. Others have done that and you know where those stories end up. Best to just stay quit while it's relatively easy to do so
  14. You are in the thick of it now Sunny! Don't worry though, it's doable and you can get through this just like we all have done. Focus on your quit as the number 1 priority for now. Take it a day or even an hour at a time. I remember that lack of concentration well in my own early quit. It's debilitating but it will get better and go away. It's just a reminder of how powerful this addiction really is. It has ruled your every move and now you're denying it .... ha, ha! Good for you! Your kicking it's a*s and it doesn't like it.
  15. She doesn't realize it yet but, I'm planning all this so she can take over and be forever responsible for the celebrations thread
  16. What the fukc is wrong with parents these days!!!! So on holiday last week on a "family friendly" cruise ship. (translation - tons of kids from infants to young teens. All out of frigging control). The misbehaving rug rats and lack of parenting skills were unbelievable and they were everywhere!! Kids in diapers in the adult hot tubs pissing up the water, screaming their heads off and dropping their ice cream cones into the water. Children slapping their parents, even kicking them because they couldn't get what they wanted immediately and the parents doing nothing about it - WTF; when did the children take over?? I wanted to open a small booth on one of the walkways with a big sign "Discipline Booth - 2 Spankings for $1.00". You won't whack your kid but I'll put the fear of God into them - just watch me I'm glad I won't be around when these little monsters are in control of this world. It's going to be a fukcing ugly place!!
  17. Reciprocity replied to bakon's topic in Games
    I should have stayed on holiday -2
  18. Reciprocity replied to Boo's topic in Socializing
    Or, the famous Bautista "Bat Flip" incident in the 2015 American League Division Series against Texas Rangers that fueled an ongoing feud between Toronto & Texas! It was great to see as a Blue Jays fan - not so much from the Rangers point of view - lol
  19. Reciprocity replied to Boo's topic in Socializing
    Probably the Toronto Blue Jay's greatest moment ever! 2nd World Series win in a row 1993 and that was the last one
  20. I wouldn't invest in their stock even if it was on the rise! Glad to see we are choking the life out of them as they have done to so many people over the years
  21. You're good to go Jo! No worries. Just tell smoking to Pis* Off, like you have been all along. It just gets easier and easier to do as you move forward. I think the only thing that poses a danger to all of us longer term quitters is that moment of complacency where we figure we can just have one again because we've been quit for so long. I've read too many stories about what the real life result of that is so I now keep those tucked away in my head so that if I start thinking that way, I just focus on those real life stories. I don't want to go there and so far .... I haven't. Keep the faith friend. You're well on your way
  22. Yes - a long awaited break from the brutal winter we've had this year in the Great White North - it was GREAT!

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