Reciprocity
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You're still in the early days of your quit Linda! I know it seems like it's been forever since you had your last smoke but it's hasn't been that long actually. Part of the early process is time distortion that makes each day drag on endlessly. Seemed to me those days were filled with misery but you can control that somewhat by focusing on the positive things you are starting to see. Sure, there will be some days when you feel you have taken a step backward. That's how the process works .... very slowly. Give your quit 6 weeks then tell us if we were all wrong about things getting easier or not. We were all like you. I was still pulling my hair out at times during my first month but those days just kept getting fewer and fewer throughout the first month or so. There's no specific time frame or switch, like a light switch, when suddenly we feel OK with our quit. It's such a gradual process you will not even realize it's happening. It just does, on it's own as long as you don't give in to your junkie thinking and light up a smoke (NOPE) You can also help that process along by focusing your mind on the positives you notice rather than the roadblocks your junkie brain, or what's left of it, tries to have you focus on. Positive attitude makes a huge difference. The other thing you can start doing is take another look at what smoking really does to people. We tend to ignore all that stuff when we smoke because we just don't wanna know! Look up articles on diseases such as Lung Cancer, Buerger's Disease, COPD, Emphysema, Heart Disease. You will have a new perspective on things now and be much more willing to accept the truth about what smoking really does to us - it's NOT our friend! Kick your nicotine addiction in the A*s and out of your life forever!!!
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Congrats on double Lido! Be sure to celebrate
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Great job Kate! I know you've been through a lot of sh*t before this quit but I believe you have found your life long quit now. Celebrate this 1/2 year marvel and look forward to the next 6 months because they will fly by a lot faster than the first 6 did!
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Nope!
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For the older phone buffs
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@notsmokinjo; Did you see snow falling today? I heard Australia got snow in some areas today and you would be in the southern most part of the country pretty much - closest to Antarctica?
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You have a lot of blood, sweat & tears invested in this life saving choice you made 6 weeks ago. It does get easier so just remember why you quit in the first place and how much of yourself you've invested to this point. You're on the winning path. Celebrate that!
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Trying to use my laptop which Mr. Widebody seems to think is a napping spot 🤨
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Going with #1 cuz ... Jeremiah was a bullfrog (according to 3 Dog Night!)
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Probably 3 but I'll go with 1 cuz Jo took 3 already.Congrats on your entrance to the Lido Deck Mightboosh! 1 full year smoke free. Cause for a big celebration!
I saw them in Inuvik, NWT once in late November. Kind of freaked me out a little but .... no doubt, beautiful!
Yay .... I WIN!!! Oh wait, we need an official anointment before I'm crownedEPON ! Oh wait .... I'm looking in a mirror 🐷Good job getting through hell week Linda. Yeah it's tough and yeah .... it sucks most of the time in early days but it WILL get easier and much, much better!! Not immediately but every minute, every hour and every day you stand firm with NOPE, it WILL get a little easierI had a motorcycle accident just after marring my second wife, I stopped getting married ever since 🤣 I go with #3 just cuz soccer isn't all that popular here so not sure any of the Uni's even have soccer teams?
