I quit cold turkey, although it took me multiple attempts to quit for good.
I did finally quit for good through the help of another quit site (QSMB) and in my early days I assumed all of the more established quitters there quit cold turkey as well. Turns out many of them quit cold turkey but a lot of them also quit by some sort of nicotine replacement therapy.
Ultimately the most important thing is did you get to the point of no longer consuming nicotine of any type.
I think the belief that cold turkey is the best way to quit is because if you are successful, it is probably the quickest way to quit.
I would not discourage people from using NRT to quit if they struggle keeping a quit cold turkey though. The goal is to get to the point where nicotine is completely out of your life. Once you get to that point, you have succeeded, regardless of the method.
But let me repeat this.
Ultimately the most important thing is did you get to the point of no longer consuming nicotine of any type.
If you are still consuming nicotine at this point in your quit, Sunshine, you really need to work on getting that out of your life once and for all. Otherwise, you are still living the life of an addict.