SanDar

Now where's that unlike button?? jk

Oh Tracey can you imagine? What, no dinner, no clean clothes and the house a mess? Hubby would think I'd parted with all my senses. Maybe send me off for a little "mental" relaxation. hmmmm that's one way to get a break, lol :blink:

awww..thanks Marti :) And the smoking thought was just that - a thought. I do NOT give it any of my precious time :)

Now that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ just made me spit my coffee! lmao

Tracey & Rez - you two are having too much fun :P

Me in my picture, from about a year ago. My real name is Sandra - and I hate it! Please call me Sandy? :)

Yes!!! Yankee fan :)

Oh you are so right Sue. Some days I feel like I'm raising 2 kids, lol. Gotta love 'em though. :)

Glad to see you here :)

Congratulations on 2 months of Freedom!!

Congratulations on 10 months of freedom!

Happy Anniversary Jimmy! And it's also a good day for NOPE!

So sorry Jackie .

Thanks Sue, Yes, we have our grandson 24/7. I'm still pi**y that I got called out for nagging. My thought is if you don't want "nagged" about something -get 'er done :wacko:

Now I like this idea Beacon :rolleyes:

Thanks! You are a hoot Doreen! I'm so glad i've got to meet all of you folks :)

Thanks Action! You've made this old nag feel so much better :)

I love it here on the QT! And you people are the best :)

Not much to add here- these folks have given you some great advice. For me, the toughest was having my first cup of coffee in the morning without a smoke. The first day felt a little off, but I did it and it just got easier every day. Now I enjoy my coffee while I do my morning pledge and check out the board here. It truly does get easier. :)

Chrys, thank you! You always know what to say. And i really had to chuckle at the thought of my 3 yr old grandson mowing :)

So sorry ((Wiley)) I also lost my mom to a heart condition. And yet, I continued to smoke for all those years. We are smarter than that now, aren't we? When we know better, we do better. I'm glad I quit smoking too.

Ava, you have certainly lessened your chances of that happening to you. And I'm sure your Aunt is proud of you. :)

aaaaccccckkkk....enough with the nagging already. lol No more nagging smoking thoughts here. Thanks Sally :)

Nope, this is not an SOS. Just some crazy thoughts going on. Revelation: Being pissed off, frustrated and tired is no reason to smoke. It never helped when I was a smoker and it for sure would not help now. I did have to stop a few minutes, think things through and come to this board to read though. That is what helped. Most of you probably don't know that my husband and I are raising our 3 yr old grandson. He’s the absolute apple of my eye! It’s certainly nothing we planned to do at this time of our lives, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. Of course, most of the day to day work involved in raising a child falls upon me, while papa gets to bask in the glory of playing ball etc. I love that he does this. But I’d also like some help with the yard work and outdoors work. I can’t possibly do it all. Of course, when he needs to be reminded to help me out, I’m nagging. Well I was called out on the “nagging” today and it pi**ed me off! I mean it really got to me. I said to myself, screw this, I’m just going to smoke. WTH? Where did that come from? I don’t want to smoke, and will NEVER smoke. It’s just scared me that this even came out of my mouth! (No one heard it but me). I’m rambling, but it helped. And going to the curse thread was a good way to vent :lol: