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Wow!!! good for you, Evelyn!! xox I'm one of the few that don't count what I've saved or not smoked... I think it's because, I'd HATE to add up and see what I spent or smoked, if that makes sense... But WELL DONE, YOU!!!

Errrr? :huh: Michelle..? Why is this thread called "day 3"?... aren't you 4 mths in now?.. (20th April 2015)?

LOVE IT!! Michelle, we all know that feeling... I'm probably too late for a beneficial reply, but 'here's to you' for the post!! xox

-4

N.O.P.E!!!!!!!!!!!!! nope nope nope nope!!!!

N.O.P.E!!!!!!!!!!!!! nope nope nope nope!!!! (in a rush today, so can't catch up.. xox)

-15........... :D

I'm GUTTED! She was an idol of mine for YEARS! Can hear "you're my world" ad naseam and NEVER be tired of it!! RIP 'our' Cilla xox

-13

N.O.P.E!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE!!!!

WOWEE JOE!!!! HUGE CONGRATULATIONS!!! Little Audrey is IRRESISTIBLY CUTE!!! She looks like one of the 'baby newborn' dolls!!! Her sisters and little princesses too!!! Ahhh.... xox What a good lovely uncle and auntie you both are! and yes! 9lbs anything is big!!!! lol!

-6

Firstly, D130, try not to feel 'stupid' about ANYthing you're feeling/posting.. xox Secondly, there's no such thing as "normal"... there's no normal marriage, there's no normal child, there's no normal anything IMO!! It's either acceptable or not acceptable to you or the other person..... SO... having said that.... smoking was a relationship!! We had a relationship with cigis.. for each of us, the relationship was different! Some smoked 25 every other day... some only at weekends... some 100 each day... For each of us, there was a strong 'bond' there... or else we wouldn't have done it for so long! Sadly, we even mourn BAD relationships!!! It's true! it was part of us.. part of our regular routine.. it (often) RULED our lives in SO many ways... and now it's gone!!! Of COURSE we're going to have days we miss it!!! We wouldn't be human if we didn't... From my experience, the less we 'dwell' on the frustration of "loss" the better! Have a couple of days 'mourning' then that's it! It is what it is... we left them because they were TOXIC... make no mistake! and 'going back' would be ROOOLY stoopid! LOL!!!! It will get better, hour by hour, day by day, week by week, and FILL the time wisely!!! ;) Strolling along an esplanade is SO therapeutic! Don't forget the earbuds with your favourite music blasting!!!! 12 DAYS!!! that's HUGE!!!! oh, and you're in Oz!! :wub:

N.O.P.E!!!!!!!!!!!!! nope nope nope nope!!!!

By the way..... INTELLIGENCE and EMOTION are two VERY difference measures!!!! On an intellectual level, I KNEW there was something 'amiss'... we all do... but emotionally, (for whatever reason) in my case 'familiar/learned' behaviour, it was 'love'... and boy!!! was it love!!! from ME.... Stable/reliable/acceptable behaviour is when the intelligence and emotions are as close as possible!!! some are better at it than others.. I've LEARNED how to lessen the gap... Hope I've explained that well... don't think I have...

Precisely!!! It's taking away their CHOICE!!! Bluddy hypocritical governments!!!!!

-3 :yahoo:

N.O.P.E!!!!!!!!!!!!! Can't BELIEVE I quit the month before last! :P ;) :rolleyes:

MINUS THREE!!!! I'm wubbing this game..... (little things please little minds!)

YEAHHHHHH!!!!! YAAAAAYY!!! -21! can I do that? so did we win???

So Tiffany not back here, yet? :(( Donotwanna! WOOHOO!! and that 3's thing... think that was moi?!!! Not that I don't have the occasional thought... but mostly "have I REALLY quit smoking?" or "I can't beLIEVE I'm smoke FREE!" Yesterday, I wanted my friend to pop over, (she smokes) for a 'puff'... can you believe that??? That DARN 'puff' thing! sheesh! it IS like 'maybe this time it will be different'.... I know the 'traps' so will keep clear... bulldust!!! But thank God, that was yesterday, and only for a few minutes... I didn't ask her to come, and whenever she does, I KNOW I won't take that puff!!! NOT ONE PUFF, EVER!

(((((((Kendra))))))) xox Wish I could 'materialise' them! :wub: True so true! 19 days (well....21 now!) is HUGE!!! that's 3 WEEKS!!!

come on girls!!!!!! where ARE y'all???? hehehe... I'm putting my day on hold here! :)

Grrrrr -19

HEAR, HEAR!!! and moi!