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My dad loved the cupcakes...Vietnamese Iced Coffee cupcakes and carrot cake cupcakes with lemon cream cheese icing. But right now.... I'm making scrubs...happy halloween3 points
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Opa, Opah! Cheers and good cheer to you on your first of many anniversaries.3 points
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Oh Congrats Opah....1 year... you are the official winner of the never give up on giving up award. Your determination to quit has paid of.3 points
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Recovered for a few days- getting busy once again. Headed off for a 50 mile bike ride2 points
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Congratulations Opah, welcome to the Lido deck. This deserves an extra special reward. So, live it up.2 points
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Congratulations @Opah!!! I’m thrilled to welcome you aboard The Lido Deck!!2 points
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Ace where did you get that picture of me? That was like 10 years ago when I disappeared into the mountains for a year. Very sad time and such a wonderful time learned a ton about my self lived day to day, trapping, my blow gun and Bow. Didn't know what day it was, time was not relevant.2 points
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Welcome to the lido deck Opah. Celebrate and enjoy, you've earned it.2 points
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@Opah congratulations on 1 year of being smoke free!! You are an inspiration to us all!!! Celebrate the weekend!!2 points
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Congratulations Opah! It’s been encouraging and enlightening to follow your quit! Thank you for being YOU! Have a great weekend!2 points
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cpk Quit Date: 02/04/2015 Posted May 17, 2015 · IP It has taken me awhile to figure out that the anxiety I have been experiencing since week 6 of my quit (now in week 15) is not directly related to quitting. Not smoking is the peaceful part of my life. The anxiety was there before I quit. I probably used smoking to try to keep the anxiety in check. I don't recall having "anxiety attacks" when I smoked. I have opted to use natural supplements, which are helping. This weekend I picked up a workbook on using DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) to quell anxiety through cognitive and emotional restructuring --- that is, simply put, training my mind to not be anxious. I need to reprogram the software in my brain. I had gotten in the habit of being anxious. I now need to learn how to do life in a new way. I know that people sometimes relapse because they find they are more anxious not smoking and feel they can't cope. They think it is because they miss smoking. This was me in the past, before I joined QT and got educated. I never even considered that my anxiety had nothing to do with quitting smoking. I used smoking to try to calm myself, but that probably made everything worse! I certainly felt like a physical wreck, and it's pretty hard to cope when you have smoking related headaches, respiratory distress, fatigue and a host of other physical problems. Now I have none of these physical problems. The good people on this site prodded me a bit to look closer, and to observe what was going on with my life. That is the beauty of QT...that quitters know the journey of self-discovery takes time and patience. (I especially remember Tracey suggesting this in a very gentle way.) I was a little bummed out to realize this state of being anxious was something lurking beneath my smoking addiction. However, accepting that this is something I have to work on is far better than endlessly relapsing, which is very bad for self confidence. Strength to strength. I think I read that somewhere on this site. That's how I see the non smoking journey. Moving forward, growing, and evolving. Saying n.o.p.e. is the first step. Lurkers who may be reading this...there is great HOPE --- and the promise that you will never again have to experience a disappointing relapse. I know I was like many...feeling scared to try to quit again, just thinking it would end in relapse. There is a way...to never, never, never relapse again, and to forever embrace the freedom of not smoking. The way can be found right here, right now, on QT. QT helped me to see I never again have to think about relapse because I have the skills now to be a nonsmoker for life. I have freedom from smoking forever Link to original post: https://www.quittrain.com/topic/5348-anxiety-antidote/1 point
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Sorry I somehow lost access to the board while I was sick. I think I have fixed it. I am technologically challenged. My thought is for our dear Jillar on bringing home her baby as I have mine here. They also sent I lock of his hair and a footprint home with his ashes. I must say when I pass it is going to be a challenge for my family. My sweet pup Oz is here, and with him in the china cabinet is my husband, my Mom, the closest family friend of my husband and I. I have known the friend since 2nd grade and he became a good friend to my husband when we were only fifteen. He had 2 brothers but neither one wanted his ashes. I was in charge of his arrangements per his wish but I am still shocked they would not want their brothers ashes. My son has directions to mix my ashes with his Dad's and our Oz. My hope is to take dear friend to Colorado to spread, that was a favorite place of his to visit. Does anyone else struggle with these decisions? K1 point
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1 more sleep.....but especially for Halloween here's a song for All Saints Eve...1 point
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