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No work today, going to spend the day on the beach, beautiful Lake Huron and a some boating, with friends. It is almost 90 here so I am so looking forward to some fun in the sun. and oh yeah I won't forget the wine . Hope everyone has a great day😀😀

NOPE - Not One Puff Ever Please pledge to not smoke, even if it one day at a time. Life is better without cigarettes.

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It's a NOPE for me!! 😊

Congratulations Katgirl .... You smashed that month ...Don't forget your Reward for all your hard work. Thank you for your constant support to others ..

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Good job Katgirl.

@Katgirl Congratulations

Nope here too .

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I’m not sure about the ripple effect either. A person smokes because he/she allowes and eventually provides. There's really no external effect or person or whatever responsible for that. The more I come to think of it, the more I see how I started jeopardizing my quit somewhere at the start of this year. I recognized that I felt isolated and lonely, I knew I had to go full on self care. I think I did a lot of things quite ok, considering circumstances. But, somewhere along the line, the thought “I can always grab a smoke, if things really fall apart” came in. And although I didn’t really held on to the thought (at least that’s what I uhm... thought haha), I wasn’t facing it either. What I should have done, was coming here way more often. It should have been my absolute no 1 priority to keep that quit, like it has been for so long. Regardless of personal and global circumstances, moons or stars.. bit I didn’t. And now I’m sorry and have to sit on the blisters, as we say here. so, don’t ripple effect me, don’t be like MLMR!! (Or at least not relaps-wise 😉 )

This is just my intake ...it may differ from others .. In my quit along the way ..I have seen many friends fall victim to the Nicotine trap,when they had good quits going...this used to effect me big style ... But what it did do was make my own quit stronger ..because I could see how easy it was to fall... I'm agreeing that this virus has probably had alot to do with this issue this year or so ... The great news is ...ML and Steven jumped right back in to thier seats ...

I'm still holding it together thankfully! The Covid pandemic has made everything hard, not just quitting smoking. Things are slightly more normal here now, we were allowed to meet for our ukulele class this morning however we all had to wear masks in the room and were not allowed to sing together! I found that hard, but at least I was with other people. The isolation can do your head in! There is live music this weekend with very limited numbers allowed in each venue, masks have to be worn and we all have to check in, in case there needs to be tracking of people if there is an outbreak. I am so grateful for these small freedoms as it means there is something to look forward to again. These events and the Quit Train have helped me enormously to maintain my quit so far....

Congratulations Katgirl! You are doing awesome!

Congratulations on your first month quit @Katgirl, you should be so proud of yourself. And you did it all while supporting others also🤗 I hope you have something special planned to celebrate😊

Lucky you, sounds amazing, have a great day 😊

Yay!! Congratulations Katgirl That all important 1st month is done. Now you can put all the tools and strategies you learned in that first month to work for your 2nd month.

Double Congrats @Katgirl you are rockin this .

I didn't know ML. So recently three . I'm so sorry to hear this , but yes glad they are all back on the wagon They didn't cause each other to lose their quits in that ripple effect sense but definitely a rough time that all seemed to be around the same time . @Robbie we might soon be singing outdoors again too and so happy because it's been 15 months . I am too anxiously waiting. Enjoy 😊 I'm glad to hear you are getting back to it . Music really does help,. I think maybe we will be able to sing with masks on , but I know there are guidelines and rules . New lax of restrictions here starts today . It's been broken down into three stages this will be stage two. We've all definitely learned to appreciate the little things through this pandemic . It's been hard for sure . Thanks @MLMR thinking one can grab a smoke is dangerous , stinkin thinking I called it when I went there . Smoking has to completely take it off the table as an option . I had stinking thinking which led to romancing which led to one puff which led to losing eight years quit which led to COPD /asthma diagnosis , and it didn't end there . I'm confused is there another ML or this was you who recently smoked and got bk n the wagon , if so I'm so glad you didn't go on to relapse . @PeachFuzz l think I have never slept properly when it seems there is a full moon . Lack of sleep too can cause us to let our gaurd down . Hungry angry lonely and tired . If we think of those four things quite often a crave will pass when we recognize it's not a smoke we need , but nurturing ourselves in one of those ways . Halt . I'm not sure younfolks use that term here . As far as astrology tho I don't know much about that . @Doreensfree I agree and was the case for me . An eight year quit I gave away because I was confident in my long quit and took a puff . It did make me stronger . I have almost ten years now and this quit I haven't been so unwise to think I can't be trapped by a trigger again . I don't dwell on smoking but I do stay vigilant. @Mee depression is hard . Anxiety , panic all those things but I know again from personal experience and from knowing others with the same that quitting is still not impossible , maybe a bit harder , but harder makes us stronger too . I am proud of those who suffer those things and still keep coming back , still make their way through . Thanks everyone for your very very thought filled input and thoughtful responses . It's been a good discussion , hopefully others will still come to add . Different perspectives and observations are helpful . Keeping a light on for those to come home .

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Yes, I do have one month smoke fee today! I’m not sure why, but it almost seems too easy. Maybe because I had gradually cut down, or was really ready psychologically? My large family is my reason for doing this. I want as much time with them, as God will give me. None of us knows how much time we have left, but we can improve our odds, in that department, by living a healthier lifestyle. Look at me! I quit smoking, and I am working out daily. I have even managed to shed some weight, which can be a problem with a lot of quitters. I will admit that vanity is why I started working out. I wanted to assure that I would at least look as good as I did, before I quit, after quitting. Not the best motivation, I suppose, but it worked for me. Thanks for the well wishes, and a big thank you to whoever started this group. I know that checking in everyday, and participating, is a big reason for my success, so far. So, one day at a time……. Thanks again, friends! KAT

Gday NOPE....... for me

Just what the Doctor ordered. Friends, sun & fun - enjoy! 😀

@Abby yeah, i think Frying Pan Doreen is referring to me 🙂

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Please introduce yourself . My name is Abby , fairly new to quit train but have been for quit for some time . I smoked 28 years and was up to two packs a day . Eh I am Canadian . People here from around the world with one common goal . Love to know where you all are from . I never thought I could quit . I came upon joining a quit site as a last resort when I was deathly sick ( a do or die situation ) and after several failed attempts to quit decided to just do it , no more trying . I was scared , had little hope , depressed and didn't know where to start . Everyone helped me , welcomed me and voila I'm still here . I would say the experience is a good one . I owe my quit to the help and support of fellow ex smokers like those here at quit train . I attribute my quit to their patience , understanding , to their keeping me on track and on the rails , to keeping me distracted through games and humour , teaching me through education and videos , testimonies and a much needed kick in the butt too when needed . Sometimes things hurt , oh yeah , that truth sometimes hurts , but sometime it was the whistle I needed to hear . With that , and the education I learned researching about addiction on my own ; learning from those who went before me and those who devote their lives to helping others quit like Joel Spitzer videos , books written by many , the administrators and founders of such sites it was a complete recipie . From there it was daily practise . I am grateful I put the work into making it all come together . It wasn't easy , but something worth having sometimes doesn't come as a hand out . I learned that when I took my first easy eight year quit for granted and blew it away with one puff . Quitting smoking changed my life . It was all worth it . Every crave , every struggle . Glad you are here , glad I'm here too , glad we are all here . That's it from me. Anyone else want to share ? Newcomers , elders ? Ps . Likes music , loves being smoke free , dislikes shrimp .

Big congratulations on the one month. If vanity is part of the reason who cares? The day you stopped you already looked better. keep up the good work and the road will get easier but it seems to me you got the guts for this. Best wishes. Stay close if stress does come on. Help is here.

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Not ashamed to say ...shedding a tear .🙁

Have a great day Linda!😊

MLMR, Don’t feel dumb! I had 6 years and lost that quit over a bad romance. How stupid is that!? Then I smoked for another 6 years. Now I have a 1 month quit going, which I hope and believe will be a final quit. You relapsed, but got right back on the quit train. You are a good example of how insidious this addiction is. I admire your honesty and determination to fight this battle. Stick close to us, and never apologize for posting. We all want to hear what you are feeling.

Vicious cycle of addiction! Always on edge, waiting for the next 'fix'. That's why we need to put as much distance between that last smoke and the rest of our lives as possible.

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Day 3 went smoothly, untill just now. It overflows me bigtime. And writing here seems so stupid, after all this time Don't beat yourself up ML.... What would be stupid is ....carrying on smoking ....posting and writing here will strengthen your quit ...😀

Love this I needed this today . Thanks Linda for all you do here .

Life is too short grudges are a waste of happiness love when you can apologize when you should and let go of what you can't change love deeply and forgive quickly life is too short to be unhappy

Well done Nana20, what a wonderful milestone!

Going with Redneck on this one 😂

I'm going with genius again on this one.....

@reciprocity You gardens are beautiful!!!!

@Mee It has been really hot and humid here Very dry though,finally got some rain last night.

I don't feel it is a ripple effect either. I do feel we have been all living a dreadful year. Being isolated and discouraged brings depression. When we are depressed, we look down on ourselves. When we are down our strength weakens. I do believe this community is essential but have also found myself distracted from the forum. I think continuing our friendships and helping others helps each of us stay vigilant. It took me too many years to find freedom and I know that I never want to be a smoker again. Many people here helped me through very dark days and helped me to believe in myself. All of us are valuable and stronger than we realize. Come here and reach out when you feel weak. We are here to hold each other up.