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  1. G’day NOPE .....Not One Puff Ever.... (replace Ever with Min Hour Day as required!)
    9 points
  2. Excuse: That smoking is who I am and I won't know what to do with myself when I quit. Truth: My quit was a beautiful metamorphosis into becoming the real me. Nicotine rots your brain; it restricts your movements to places where you can smoke and makes anything outside of that unbareably uncomfortable. Now, I'm FREE to do anything, to finally be me, to love me...what a wonderful feeling
    7 points
  3. It was my Reward !!!....for a hard day's work ...for doing the washing ....for doing the hoovering ... For mopping the floor ... ect,ect... Some reward !!!!.....facing Amputation is not a reward ...it's the opposite....
    7 points
  4. I have had many excuses over the years. But as I got older the big one has been, the damage is already done, so why put myself through it. The truth is that it is never to late to quit. I'm not in the ground yet. Even with the damage I've done over the years, my life will be better and longer by quitting now.
    7 points
  5. Excuses: Too busy at work now to quit! Going on vacation so why ruin that? Christmas is almost here. I can't quit now and ruin the holidays for everyone in the family! Summer's here and I just want to enjoy it, not suffer through quitting. Winter is coming soon and that'll make me miserable enough, why make it worse by quitting? Truth: There's NEVER a good time to quit so just make an unbreakable commitment to yourself and do it! It will set you free and you'll never have to fret over it again
    7 points
  6. A lot of these excuses to continue smoking I can relate to as I used them too. Another excuse: Smoking helps me concentrate and be more focused/creative on whatever project I was involved with at work. I often felt that taking a few minutes away from a project to light up allowed me to step back and see my task from a bigger perspective. I could then come back to my computer with a whole new creative focus. Truth: I was outside with my co-workers hearing the latest gossip. I came back to my computer out of breath and the last thing I was thinking about was my work. Since quitting smoking, if I need to step back from my work to re-focus, I can go for a walk, drink some water, etc. and come back to my project with more energy and a more positive mindset. For some reason, I felt smoking really helped with creativity which is complete BS.
    6 points
  7. Some mental blocks take longer to get over than others. Doreen mentioned smoking as a reward for a finished job. It took the better part of my first year quit to get over wanting my "reward" when I finished a task. It's a distant memory now, but it took a while to get there. Hang in there Mona. You're doing a great job.
    6 points
  8. I am not strong enough. The longer I smoked, the more isolated and depressed I became. I was ashamed that I knew what smoking was doing to my health and could not stop. The truth is that your quit journey awakens the power within you. The strength and confidence I acquired not only improved my health but improved my outlook on life. I am stronger than the family drama, negative people and the addiction that I used as my comfort and friend.
    6 points
  9. Yup...lots of excuses out there. I used this one a lot.... Excuse: There are too many bad things going on in my life right now to even think about quitting. Fake examples - My kid is having problems at school; my aunt is terminally ill; my house has termites; my car needs a new transmission; my back is sore; my dog won't eat; my parents can't keep up their house; my neighbors put a garden gnome village in their front yard......blah, blah, blah. Truth: There is never a time when everything is perfect and serene in life. There will always be some challenge or difficulty you'll need to deal with. They are not valid reasons to avoid the single best thing to improve your life...quitting smoking. Bad things may occasionally pop up after you quit, but at least you'll be healthier and free from a crappy addiction.
    5 points
  10. These were big excuses for me too, especially going on holiday and Christmas. I mean what is Christmas without drinks and a smoke. Heck I always asked for a packet of cigarettes in my stocking, that was me happy for the day! non smoking relatives visiting for Christmas Day really spoilt the day, as I had to keep sneaking off for a smoke, and I just wanted them to go home so I could relax and smoke. Excuse... Smoking made me look sexy and more appealing! Truth... there is nothing sexy or appealing about having stinky hair, stinky clothes, a smoke hanging out your mouth and bad breath.
    5 points
  11. Excuse: Any stress or drama going on around me. Truth: I am stronger than my addiction and this too shall pass. It isn't worth giving in to a craving and having to start all over again.
    5 points
  12. Excuse: Similar to BKP's but a little different. I won't be able to deal with stress. Truth: This one still gets me sometimes. It's really the only time I struggle to hang on to my quit. From my previous quit, I know this gets better with time but in this quit, I can still go to a pretty bad place.
    5 points
  13. G’day NOPE .....Not One Puff Ever.... (replace Ever with Min Hour Day as required!)
    5 points
  14. 5 points
  15. All of the above posts except jillar`s. My parents did not smoke but I was around plenty of people that did as i grew older and no one really seemed to mind it much. I can recall Mom telling people to go to the living room to smoke. Living room? What a name to call a place to smoke. Some things have changed for the better.
    5 points
  16. My only excuse was that I thought I loved smoking. It just blows my mind that I thought that.
    5 points
  17. We all had a list of excuses a mile long why we shouldn't quit. "The damage is done." "I'll gain weight." "Quitting will ruin my social life." By allowing ourselves to accept these excuses as dogma, we often delayed quitting smoking for years or decades. Choose an excuse that you once held and then expose the reality that shatters that excuse. Mine: Excuse: I'll get too stressed if I quit. Truth: The most stressful thing in my life as a smoker was making sure I got my "fix" every 20-30 minutes. I would rearrange my life to make sure I could feed my addiction according to this timetable. It stressed me out if I had to participate in an event where I couldn't smoke for an hour or two. So, it turned out that not smoking was actually less stressful than smoking. What's your Excuse and Truth?
    3 points
  18. NOPE, never on @reciprocitys wife's birthday!!!
    3 points
  19. 3 points
  20. @Boo; you'll be her go to when Mommy's laying down the law! That may change when the first boy friend shows up at the door
    3 points
  21. Great post BKP, as for me I had a few but one I used over and over again was............ Excuse: It's my legacy Truth: I'm an addict who was looking for any reason I possibly could to get my fix of nicotine.
    3 points
  22. Excuse: But, but...I really enjoy smoking. Truth: I was just another garden-variety addict getting my fix.
    3 points
  23. I'm too old to Quit...the damage is done !!!! Rubbish !!!!! Your never too old to Quit and benieft..... Your body starts to heal the minute you put that last cigerette out !!!!
    3 points
  24. Good on you, Matthew. I was going to say flush those cigs down the toilet. Every day gets a little better.
    2 points
  25. It's gone. The cravings unfortunately remain for right now, but the tobacco is gone.
    2 points
  26. Make it sleeveless and call it a vest. Confession: I can't wait for menopause.
    2 points
  27. Niagara on the Lake is such a beautiful place...love that town. Hope to see it again someday!
    2 points
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