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  1. Thanks C .... on more levels than you realise I needed to see something like this today.
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  4. Seriously, folks. Yesterday, Dre and I were in the car heading to sushi and I mentioned to her that Saturday was 1 year and 4 months since I quit smoking. She literally jumped in her seat, looked at me with a completely startled face and said "Holy shit! I totally forgot you used to smoke!" It's so amazing to be where I am now. It's strange how something that ruled my life for 30 years and -once I stopped- was all I could think about for months on end, is now nothing more than just a faded old memory for me (and not even a memory for some.) If you're struggling, keep with it. I swear it's worth it. There is no downside to not smoking. NOPE!
    5 points
  5. So fella's its still your health week, I'm gunna nag you every day cos obviously clearly you probably don't have enough nagging chicks in your lives but do yourselves a favour and book in for a routine check up and if your over 40 get your prostrate checked while your at it. So during International Men's Health Week I say NOPE ... cos smoke free is the only way to be... Topic of the Day: Cover Songs.
    5 points
  6. With apologies for the partial quote. Just to echo Cbdave, get tested, it's very simple. Nope!
    5 points
  7. Gday Its NOPE for me. Prostate cancer is the secound largest cancer killer of men just behind lung cancer. Unlike lung cancer it has a simple blood test that can indicate it's possible presence. A simple pin prick every 2 years called a PSA test. Biggest chance is its a more benign version and you die with the cancer rather than of it. If you get a more virilent version it will kill you if not treated. I'm a prostate cancer survivor. 2 years post OP. Having a level 5 cancer staged at P3a means I still have a 40 per cent chance of it's return. If your a bloke over 40 get the simple test. Yes and stay smoke free more smokers get the virulent cancers C
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  9. One day at a time. NOPE
    4 points
  10. Hi all, and thank you so much for all your kind words, am so pleased to have found my old friends and look forward to making new friends, mummy cuddles all round! I will just get you up to date with what I have been up to, we did a month in Thailand Nov/ Dec. That was pretty hard going at times, mainly because the hotel I had chosen was way up a massive and very steep hill into the rain forest, and with the heat I would find myself gasping for air, sometimes when we got back to our room I would just throw my bag on the bed and walk into the shower fully clothed! then start to take my clothes off once my heart had stopped pounding. We have booked to go back this year, but to a flatter place, so we will do lots of walking looking for butterflies and flowers and gorgeous things. We have just got back from 2 weeks in Gozo, which is a little island just of Malta, right in the middle of the Mediterranean sea. The hotel was on top of a hill with amazing views down valley to the sea, we went on long walks of 6 and 8 miles through terraced fields and beautiful, very quiet country side, almost no cars, and just birdsong. Yes it was all down hill, but a long way down hill, and we didn't sit down until we got to our destination, which was always a beach. Now, you may ask yourself why I am bragging about stuff like this. Two reasons, 1, I couldn't have done this when I smoked, I would have been sitting down every 20 mins to catch my breath, and going through the motions of fannying around in my bag to find cigarettes and lighter, which now I can see must have been very annoying to my beautiful Colin, but he never complained (God! I love that man!) I used to smoke outside because I needed that fix, but it made me feel conspicuous, ashamed, dirty, and a lesser person. Not having to go through all the rigmarole of finding the cigarettes (I am a woman - I have loads of stuff in my bag, so I could be hunting for ages,) lighting one up, finding that lighter doesn't work, looking for another and then smoking it so fast with deep drags that I must have looked totally ridiculous. Not smoking has given me so much more time to enjoy everything, and not having the stress and pressure of having to slope off and find a "secret" place to have my fix. It is lovely not smoking! the freedom is amazing, so much more time to look around and actually see life, it is amazing what you miss when you spend all the necessary time needed to go through your routine, so much time wasted, that is a massive regret for me, I am one that looks at things others would just walk past, I make memories of little things, insects, the smell of lilac, art, architecture, history, I have missed so very much of life with my head stuck inside my bloody stupid handbag looking for smoking equipment,and sloping away like a filthy rodent into a cesspit of secrecy and shame. The second thing is the money saved, all the money saved has gone towards us enjoying life even more, what would you rather have a months worth of something that will kill you or a month in Thailand?. Believe me, ladyboys, Thai food and beaches will win every time, I also have a bit of a thing about Buddhist monks, they make me feel so happy. Colin will be 68 this year and on the 12 th July I will celebrate my 60th birthday, I never expected to see 60 to be honest, when I was a young smoker 60 seemed a long way off, and by the grace of God, I am still here, and will continue to drag myself, kicking and screaming to experience every single thing I can, because did you know this... I am now a non smoker. Oh, and by the way, when I said I had been smoke free for 18 months, it was a mistake, I have been smoke free for 19 months! Isn't life just brilliant! Sending much love your way, you can do this, you will do this, and then you can be as smug as me! lol. xxxx
    4 points
  11. Like most people quitting my first morning thought was to smoke. Instead of smoking I would log into the quit smoking website and Pledge NOPE just for that day. This I’m sure helped me not to obsess about having a smoke in the morning since it firmly set my intention in place. This has gone the same way for me morning after morning, month after month. Although this week I noticed I’m forgetting to Pledge first thing in the morning. I do usually log in at some point and Pledge but finally after so long I don’t wake up and think of smoking. This is no big deal to the average person but to a newbie it may be the ultimate victory. If we have any newbies thinking things will never get better, please believe they will given enough time. The trick is to just NOPE one day at a time until they do. As boring as that sounds.
    3 points
  12. Well my lovely NOPErs welcome to another wonderful work week. Down here in the wonderful land of Aus we have an extra day for our weekend cos its the Queen's birthday, well I'm not sure if its really her birthday but every 2nd weekend in June we pretend it is and have a long weekend... cos the old duck has to be good for something. Much more importantly, this week is International Men's Health Week... why do they get a week you may ask, cos they are men and they are too busy being all butch and macho to pay attention to their bodies warning signs. Prostrate cancer is not the worse cancer to get but because so many blokes are to 'manly' to get a test they don't pick it up until its too late. So go get checked... best case cenario there's nothing wrong and you find something new you enjoy.... worse case senario you have a fighting chance. You all give a shit about yourselves or you wouldn't be here... so go get a physical, get a blood work up done, check yourself for lumps, and for god sake if you feel down and stressed and anxious or depressed talk to someone... a real man will say "hey somethings not right" or "I'm feeling pretty shit" cos that takes more balls than pretending there's nothing wrong and not getting help. Now.. surprisingly not all blokes know how to check their balls for the signs of testicular cancer... shocked me to learn this... so i got an expert in to explain for you.... So to sitting back and watching me mates suffer cos they are too pig headed to look out for themselves AND for lungs full of smoke and tar I say NOPE Topic of the Day: Cover Songs
    3 points
  13. Welcome @Imfree, it's great to have you here. Why don't you take a second and introduce yourself to everyone? We have a great group of people from all over the world who would love to welcome you too
    3 points
  14. Hello, I'm trying to learn this site and I will set up a ticker
    3 points
  15. Oh, now I realize how much I have missed you all, kisses, cuddles, hugs, and more kisses xxx
    3 points
  16. Same here Lust4Life in my 10 month quit I have put on 32lb and yep my feet ankles and knees all hurt and I have realised that I'm still feeding my face with sweet rubbish as and when I feel like it... I'm still seeing it as a wee treat for doing so well when truth be told I don't have any craves I'm way, way past that, merely fleeting notions. I know it's all in my mind now. Time to reset my thinking because before I quit I never had a sweet tooth and im sure i can get back to that.. Not sure I'm ready to quit sugar all together yet though..☺ Just like you, would I still have quit ..?? Hell yeah.. ?all that's needed is a wee bit of self control from me ..
    3 points
  17. Ran today...after squats etc....what is everyone else doing?
    3 points
  18. Is opera not for boring old farts?
    3 points
  19. the kid had a tap costume once that included tap shoes that i had to paint fluro pink, cover in glitter and then glue pale pink merboo around the top so they looked like slippers... glitter and fluff from arsehole to breakfast
    3 points
  20. You were certainly missed!
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  21. Monday metafit and yoga for me after work, looking forward to it
    3 points
  22. Oh my gawd..!!!! I'm listening to the radio and yet another special snowflake of the me, me, me gen ... fathers are neglected in the labour room ?... they don't get called by there name?.. they don't get comfy chairs to sleep in?.. nobody gave them tea and toast?... Mmmmmmm and here's me thinking mother and baby were the priority.. Oooops my bad....!!!!!
    3 points
  23. Had'n realised Doreen and Boo had put out a collaboration.
    3 points
  24. Sarge had his very last crave/urge at about 10 months. He is now nearing the 7-year mark and not a crave since. It goes away. For everyone. Timing is unique and personal, but it does go. EZPZ
    3 points
  25. I wanna read Johnny5 & Sazerac's book so I can chat books with the big kids.
    2 points
  26. Did you know that's EXACTLY how I feel?
    2 points
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