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Ah, Joel and Nancy, thank you both so much for looking out for me! Joel, your videos are not scaring me; quite the opposite. I want to have as much information in my think-bank as I can and I really like the way you present the topics. And Nancy (that's my sister's name, too!) thank you for stepping up on my behalf to make sure the information wasn't too much/overwhelming. If I could give you physical hugs right now, both of you, I would (and they wouldn't be stinky!) but virtual hugs will have to do. You don't have to give your time and effort and care to this cause, but you do. You pay it forward. I'm getting all teary sitting at work and reading this. Tears of joy! Again, a hundred thousand thanks!3 points
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Sarge has resigned himself to the life of a YoYo. Training season begins ... lose 25 to 30 pounds over the next 8 or 9 months ... Training season ends ... gain 25 to 30 in a lousy 3 or 4 months. Down, up, down, up, down, up ... It's been the ongoing story for about 6 years now. But it's better than the 25 years prior of continuous and ongoing up, up, up, up. If it had kept up at its prior rate, Sarge would be going at about 290 these days (BMI of 40-ish - extremely Obese). With the running/training keeping it in check, even though it fluctuates, it stays between 155 and 185 (21 to 25 BMI - "Normal" range). Up and down is better than continuously up. Recognize when you go out of bounds and reign it back in . We did it before, we can do it again, right? EZPZ3 points
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You are not the first to relapse. My first "quit" in years was Oct 2nd and lasted 4 hours. So I got a better plan in place and Oct 6th I quit again, and have not lit up since. Some might shame you or whatever but here is what i have to say - When we fail at something, the best thing to do is to re-examine what went wrong so we can come back next time more prepared to fight. Each time we do not succeed, we learn more. learn by our mistakes. So now is the time to rethink what you could have done different, like what caused you to buy some, and next time you can beat that temptation. Beating yourself up does no good. Just get back up and jump back in.3 points
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Someone needs to separate Doreen and Boo. Boo, it is about a group of surfer guys who keep getting attacked by this rare breed of sea creature called the camel-toe shark. It gets really deep into things.2 points
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Finally, finally FINALLY put five days together after a week of buying packs and tossing them after 1-4 smokes. Finally put five days together after having a real hard look at how good life can be when I'm free. Five days feel like a miracle after all these years, but I'm determined to have not one puff ever. Thank you, all of you, for spending time here sharing your experience. If not for this forum I would be so much more tempted and if I ever smoke again, I don't know if I'll make it back.2 points
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I walked on the treadmill on an incline for 45 minutes then 10 minutes of shoveling snow. What is everyone else doing today? Everyone meeting their personal goals? We got this!!! And good luck on training for the iron man, Sarge, I have no doubt that you can do it. Lisa2 points
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1 Im glad Reci is onto you ladies.... D.... doing great. I’m with the little granddaughter this morning while the other 3 went “shelling” again... quality time!2 points
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I'm heading backtoreality (hence my screen name) after being a smoker for 27 years out of 57. I quit for nine of them and felt the best I've ever felt but relapsed and it started another chapter of smoking for over a decade. My mother lost her life at age 41 (I was 15) to smoking, but that never slowed me down and I considered myself a confirmed smoker who would/could never even consider quitting again. Then my younger sister (another forever smoker) quit a year ago. I was so impressed and amazed that it inspired me to start harboring a tiny flicker of hope that I could quit, too, maybe? I decided to be free from cigarettes two weeks ago (1/11/18) but then spent the first week and a half mooching smokes off people, buying whole packs, smoking one to four of them, then soaking them in the sink and tossing them away. I tried not to beat myself up over it and just kept educating myself and strengthening my resolve. Thanks to Allen Carr's book, The Easy Way to Stop Smoking, I have new hope and a whole other way of seeing this addiction for what it really is. This is Day 4 and it's been emotional and strange quitting. Lots of feelings bombing into my psyche, insomnia for a couple of days running and alternating states of frustrated "arrrgh's" and proudly amazed "ahhh's." What a rollercoaster! It's been a Godsend, having this forum, and I've been educating myself with YouTube videos, the reddit stop smoking forums and lots of books. I put a quit smoking app on my phone and look at my early progress dozens of times a day. I've also cut way back on sugar and caffeine, chugging water instead (which seems to lessen the cravings) Prior to quitting, I drank sweet tea and cola all day, every day, so the concept of hydrating my body with actual water never crossed my mind. Here's to healthy changes! I will never take another puff of a cigarette. No matter what. My final cigarette was smushed out at 10:30 a.m. on January 18th, 2018.1 point
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Boo...come on..give me a break..I havnt a clue what your talking about...it's me ..remember... Ok..I believe it's about a water creature...who a mute cleaner rescues....a bit like you and me lol.... Only it would be the other way.... You water creature ..rescuing the cleaner.......1 point
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I bought a pack of poison today smoked one, immediately regretted it and sold the rest to a coworker. It was bad to smoke, but it at the very least proved to me that i didn't actually want to smoke. So going forward I will remember that it didn't even feel good and I should just meditate instead or something.1 point
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Great job getting rid of the rest! Stay strong and positive and remember how bad it felt! Good luck!1 point
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Is this another one of those opera things you chicks have been talking about lately?1 point
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+1 (I see what you chicks are doing ........... pretending you aren't mounting an attack. All this "Hi" stuff is really secret code for something, right?)1 point
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FB likes to remind people of everything. Of course as dumb as it is, I am surprised it has not sent ads for cessation products like gum or patches. Things that a long-time quitter has NO need for.1 point
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Yes!!!! just get back up? you can beat this, just have to beat the first week then it's much easier.1 point
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Katie you can do this. I won't go over the points the others have stated already. Just remember that we are here for you --- you just have to reach out. When I get my strong cravings I remember what made me want to quit and how lousy those last few cigarettes were or I come to this site and read from all the past posts--- it helps keep me centered on "NOPE". We can all do this together.1 point
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Welcome aboard this fabulous train... Its a fascinating journey...plenty of ups and down ..curves in the track...but...will gtake you all the way to freedom... You have the read...the book...you have watched some videos...you have your weapons.... You can do it....commit to NOPE !!!...never take another puff... Come and pledge with us...the days turn to weeks,months, years.... Looking forward to getting to know you better ....1 point
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Sorry to learn you relapsed Katie. I agree with what Boo said and yes, you now know that the image in your head of how pleasurable smoking a cigarette will be is just a lie that your addiction wants you to believe. Get right back on the train here and learn from this so you don't repeat it. You CAN do this Katie! You know you must do it.1 point
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Smoking didn't solve anything. The cigarette was not enjoyable. The regret was instant. The idea of smoking we have as addicts versus the reality of actually smoking are polar opposites. The addicted mind paints a portrait of the cigarette as a portal to relaxation and clarity. It's a myth, a lie. The reality of smoking is the inhalation of poison that provides a very temporary fix. The mind and body do not relax after smoking. The relief sought by addicts in smoking "just one" is an illusion that never comes to fruition. You smoked a cigarette Katie. It's unfortunate, but there is no way to unring that bell. Take it as a hard lesson learned and move forward with renewed and unwavering commitment.1 point
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I really like That advice Ellen you doing this because you want to seeyou're a great grandkids you doing this for yourself because you want a better life are you doing this because you want better health you doing this because you're tired of missing things in life you doing this because you want to be able to walk are you doing this because you want to smile with white teeth so stay strong Ellen you got this1 point
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Holly- as much as you think you know what's best for yourself - you don't if you plan on going back to smoking. There is no such thing as just one cig. There is no such thing as "a better time than now." You will always have stress. You need to learn how to cope with that without going back to nicotine. Our body is a beautiful thing, it can repair itself. The sooner you realize that, the sooner your body will heal. You can do this. The fog is temporary. PS Deep breathing really does help!1 point
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That's so true..don't feed the little monster ,he will soon die... He knows already he's in trouble...x1 point
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